9  Things I learned from interviewing contractors

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May 2024

There are known knowns; these are things we know we know. We also know there are known unknowns; that is to say we know there are some things we do not know. But there are also unknown unknowns -— the ones we don’t know we don’t know. – Donald Rumsfeld speaking at a US Defense Department meeting, February 2002

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It’s been a couple of months since I first reached out to our contractors. We’ve given each of them at least one tour of the house, and some have had their subcontractors come by to see the house as well. I’ve asked for quotes from each of them, and some have arrived.

However, even without the quotes, I’ve learned a lot just from listening to what the various contractors say as they walk through the house. I suspect most folks won’t find these that surprising, but because I’m fairly ignorant about the nuts and bolts of home construction, I discovered that:

I was impressed by the expertise of all three of our candidate contractors. And I’m pretty sure they could all do the job. But after 8 weeks of waiting for estimates, the final quotes were all, well, very different.

To avoid anyone getting a bad impression of any of these builders, I’ve named them A, B, and C.

Also, I had never heard the term allowances before I read these quotes (I told you I was a neophyte with regard to construction), but the contractors explained to me that allowances are finish items that the homeowners choose or that have substantial variations in price prior to purchase. These include, but are not limited to:

Needless to say, these allowances can have a significant effect on the cost of the project.

So the table below shows how the quotes compared. Question marks indicate values not provided in the quotes.

Company Construction Allowances Total
Builder A $410,000 ? ?
Builder B $502,000 $143,000 $645,000
Builder C ? ? $748,000

I think what we have here are a lot of unknowns, both known and unknown, to paraphrase Donald Rumsfeld.

Fortunately, one of the builders confirmed my unease with the variation in quotes. He sent an email that hit the nail on the head for me.

This rings very true to my ears. While all three builders have inspected what they can see, it’s the things they can’t see until we start taking down walls that worry us. What if there’s mold inside the walls? What if the structure framing is somehow compromised? What if our existing balcony outside our bedroom doesn’t meet current building codes?

Another aspect of this builder that we like is that the company is offering us resources that none of the other builders have offered including:

The interior designer is actually a pretty big deal for us. Both Carolyn and I are starting to get a bit overwhelmed by all the decisions we need to make to bring this project to completion. We think having a professional guide us on this will make us feel more confident that we’re not going to build a monstrosity.

The weekly reports and on-site supervisor definitely appeal to me as a recovering ex-project manager. And I like the idea that in a job of this magnitude, they have a back office that is keeping track of all the parts orders and invoices as we go.

Still, this is a tough decision. And we don’t feel like we have enough information to make it, especially when the stakes are this high.